Next: Synastry Books Compared . Hi Ami, Ive been quietly enjoying your site for years now and am finally reaching out as Im intrigued by your work on nessus/deja and recently entered into a relationship with someone (not romantic) who I discovered has nessus and mars conj my nn exact. thanks, M. Super passion unlike few else. However, if you have Nessus/Dejanira and Mars/Uranus, particularly in hard aspect( opposition and square), it may make for dark spice, shall we say. In some past life, at some point, weve been married to almost everyone weve dated or had some type of relationship with. About YOU being the Nessus with your b/f. If that does not float your boat, feel free not to read. I dont even have tattoos or my ears pierced. We also had a Juno Vertex conjunction. Sun sextile/trine/conjunct Moon is often found in marriage synastry charts. That is why I, affectionately, call them too hot not to cool down. There are certain aspects I see in these dark,nuclear passion relationships. Lets see. I use the term female, but it would be the same for either sex. No point living in fear for aspects that may not play out. We have no moon aspects will this help? Do you think I need to worry about the Nessus/BML conjunction or about abusing the poor wounded birds I keep looking for? I have no vested interest in any asteroid or any placement being any way other than my being able to help people. However, if the time is right, for sure, I would trust the chart over a personal account. If your Dejanira conjuncts his ASC, Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Venus or NN, you will be his victim. It is really rocking my world right now <3. This really highlights this magnetic quality to this conjunction and creates a situation where each individual holds the . The first would be Nessus. I have my nessus conjunct with my true node. Do we exile her from consciousness or build her a sanctuary for potent, creative expression? The chart shows the TRUTH. There are no planets conjunct or square either Nessue or Dejanira in either chart, the only conjunction is her Dejanira to his Nessus. My Dejanira is in 5 Sag, like his North Node. Copyright [the-year] [site-link] | This website is intended for entertainment purposes only. His makes two major squares to her inner planets. In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring . it would be such a fortunate relationship with his Jupiter conjunct my ASC in synastry, and Venus-Jupiter exact composite conjunction right on his natal Sun! I know there are astrologers who make every aspect positive but I dont think that is real and real is what heals and real is what gets people mad at you too lol. To me, this is always a fundamental place to start. Eros wants intense encounters that lead to lasting transformation. This brings out their dark side. Are they married, Lo. I read some things. Nessus is the abusers asteroid. Thats fatalistic and leaves the image that the entire rest of the charts and people themselves are completely victim to two asteroids that are being portrayed as always playing out when they really do not always do so. Am I right? I have only had this fantasy with him along with begging him and many many other fantasies. I think you are insightful, do not get me wrong, but being fatalistic is not the truth, and me saying that being fatalistic is wrong to do and is detrimental to people that dont know how complex astrology is, does not mean that I am not accepting the truth. YOU are the most important person to me. His Pluto sextile my moon, His Jupiter conjunct my moon and his Neptune conjunct my moon, also his mars opposite my venus, is that conducive to passion and helping me release my cancer 8th house sun conjunct north node repressesion? Thank you =). The conjunction is especially strong, but the trine, square, and opposition can also indicate a past life connection or marriage. About Nessus/BML, I would watch it. This aspect almost certainly speaks to karma from a past life marriage. Thank you F for being here and for taking the time to comment.What do you mean exactly? The chart is complex and one has to look at the entire chart to draw very global conclusions. Welcome, Ariel and great questions. Or can my Sun hurt the person. Composite: moon conjunct Neptune, Venus square Pluto, Black moon lilth conjunct Pluto square mars conjunct ceres..any explanations on this type of relationship would be very helpful!!?? Lilith is not dark, per se, Friend. I hear your concern. When you say one which you contemplate, do you mean that the person is aware of the abuse tendency and tries to deal with it? It makes sense when you consider how deeply Lilith desires to eat/destroy her loves mythologically. You do not have to do their chart. I am the nessus person and I admit to having some devious tendencies towards anyone with neptune in that position. 4) Conjunctions to the Axis/Angles = very strong bond. Finding Jesus is all that really matters in life. If you have a dominant Dejanira, you will be a victim. I dont know too much about asteroids and wonder if the intense attraction I am feeling will fizzle as quickly as it came about or if it lasting. Hats off to your courage. Since both Eros and Lilith are isolated energies buried deep in the unconcious, the erotic transformation which takes place upon their meeting is deep with raw and intuitive spiritual potency. Try to post the charts so see a visual! Our composite moon is at 26 Virgo and pluto at 0 libra. Its completely okay to stand by what you wrote. Also my true node is at 22 Cancer close to my nessus (conjunction?) If one does not see any abuse when this happens, my opinion would be that they dont know the person enough lol. 8. Well, I have been thinking about the situation. There was some sort of karma created, whether the relationship was painful or whether one person abandoned it. Isis Conjunct the Vertex. tell me your story, if you care to, Juice dear. I think there are very few people who actually manage to overcome childhood abuse, and not without a long painful journey and negative experiences. Deja conj ASC may make for victimization as you fo through life, I am not able to do more. The Five Darkest, Sexual Aspects in Synastry. And what about Sun and Pluto contacts in synastry? For example, I am the moon person and my mars also falls in his 8th and much of what you described for moon/pluto conjunction sounds like us. Thanks! It seems like sexual abuse is an emotional theme that I am working with in this life. I have 8 scorpio ascendant and he 4 scorpio jupiter. I've found that the Eros person has a "crush" on the planet person. Mars conj Saturn is not good. Their chemistry is obvious even after all these years but she did recently reveal that some light BDSM play is involved. And how would his Saturn conjunct her dejanira play out? As for MY natal chart I also have mars and Saturn conjunct in Scorpio. They may not be able to see what you are up to and you could use this for your gain. In the rare instance where these two do meet, the results are truly awe inspiring, changing our lives in intense and lasting ways. And my pluto trine his sun and venus..xxx, Mars sq Pluto can be violence and/or violent/strong passions. I have more compassion for myself, and I feel validated some ~ not to identify more as a victim. Maybe you felt this way sometimes given your Lilith-Eros contacts, but I was certainly the one more outwardly angry when the mess finally hit the fan. I sense Saggi. They may cause each other significant pain and strife, but God help any outsider who dares to point it out. My DEJA in home 6 in opposition to your NESUS in my house 12 to 10 degrees from my ascendant. The Basic House Rulers23 Simple Steps for Beginners. Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com 2000 When/if that turns bad, it could become dark. Wow. my mars is there too though, trining his Scorpio pluto 0.25 we have physical heat but plenty of fighting. 4. I have very wide-orbed Eros-Lilith contacts (not conjunctions) in my two last relationships (they are Eros, I'm Lilith), but both relationships were so 8th house-oriented and Plutonian that it's hard to tell where Lilith comes in. That would seem to be the case but sometimes, the strength of these aspects get the better of us, so it is hard for me to answer. I was thinking that maybe one of the lesser factors could be moon/mars contacts? Not good, my Friend. Yes, their Moons are trine both in Earth signs. Lots of good aspects so thats why the Nessus Dejanira confuses me. I think Chiron is extremely important in any synastry chart because it speaks to the deepest wounds created between two people. I meant in synastry her saturn conjuct his deja 1 degree, Thats ok. Aww She may ride his case for being a victim like say, get over it etc etc, Pingback: Dark sexual relationship synastry top 5 | Signing. I am looking to add 5 more aspects and would love your opinions! Your articles hit me hard again:-). Also, our vertexes are conjunct in the same degree. Youll have to use your judgement here. If I had read this as a 14-16 year old, I wouldve been waiting everyday for my mother to start emotionally, mentally, or physically abusing me, and it would have put me in a constant state of fear because I didnt know much about astrology or how complex and fluid it is. Thanks :), It would have ruined my relationship with my mother because I would have feared her even though she showed no signs of abuse. We can still find a lot of info with no time of birth. What if a man has Dejanira conjunct a womans Sun? In my studies and usage of them, they play out to be the abuser and the victim. I have this kinky fantasy specifically for him putting a really big needle into me as part of a medical procedure but this isnt my kink or fetish. Keep an eye on anyone who is near her. Conjunctions, oppositions, and trines are best. Required fields are marked *. You find them sexually attractive. Lilith-Mars Aspects in Synastry (conjunction, sextile, trine, opposition, square) Lilith-Mars aspects are all about clash of desires. The 12th house is all about past life astrology, so the planets can always be applied to past lives as well as the current life. The pairing can easily fulfill the other's sexual desires and unlock some of their naughty fantasies. Most important to me is that you find Jesus. PS I checked the synastry of a man I know for sure was abused by his own father physically and emotionally, throughout his childhood, and this mans Nessus is conjunct his fathers Sun. What use is reams of esoteric info for real life applications. From the outsider's perspective, Eros and the Ascendant person will seem as if they are living the romantic experience only witnessed in films. When she contacts Eros in another, the answer to that question is found in the heart of a powerfully erotic relationship. Nessus conj the NN in synastry would make me RUN and fast lol. If you want to ask me a simpler question, I am game! They made my day, Jeanie. Thanks SO much for your kind words. Does that fit and I applaud your willingness to face yourself. I am curious about the dejanira/nessus aspects. What about my nessus conjunct his descendant? More about Synastry (relationship Astrology) Intermediate and advanced students of Astrology might enjoy our article, SoulMate . I know it is not funny but the charts will play out, in my experience, anyway. It is desire, it is passion and love. How about choose one aspect and I will try to help, T. Not to be rude, but this is incredibly fatalistic. The puzzle pieces are coming together for me.. finally. His moon also conjunct my IC, orb 1. A recent past life will influence every bit of the relationship you have now. This relationship can be really passionate, fiery, and exciting. Isis is extreme devotion to the partner in the bravest, most selfless way possible. What would you say about moon conjunct pluto in a composite chart. PROSERPINA conjunct EROS (055') IP: Logged. Also, It doesnt suit me. Check out our 40+ page relationship astrology eBook! These aspects or connections have a "mean't to be" feel to them, it's a potent place to look at in synastry. It is typical cat and mouse game with taboo twists. there is no contact in real life anymore but the connection via the sexual chakra (either sacral or root chakra ) is still there and very strong. The story of Eros and Psyche is one of deep and transformative love, but their union was not devoid of hardship. That doesnt mean youve never been married. I am prone to being attacked in this way. I have my DEJA conjuncion JUNO in my house 6 First of all Lilith is for . It is not good to have a base level view on what will happen with one isolated aspect. In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid. Any comments will help. My nessus is separated from my true node by 7 in cncer and in exact opposition to my venus. 2) I just looked for the child asteroid and it is on 28 Capricorn, conjuct with my venus 1 Aquarius. Astrology 101 Astrophilosophy 1.8K subscribers Subscribe 119 3K views 1 year ago Eros and Venus in. Her NN on his 7th makes me think its a past life hold. I often see this aspect in the charts of couples who have been married for many years. What about nessus exactly conjunct BML in synastry the man is nessus (9h), Wow Is there a super attraction that feels so strong that it will blow you off your feet? so, quick question, where do I post it? what would result from this? Which probably held it together for SO long. To me, you may really struggle with falling into the victim role and would have to keep pulling yourself up over and over until you get real traction which could take some time, oh im sorry. You say that you want a nuclear passionate relationship. There is precious little practical info out there on asteroids. What do you think? They have lots of soulmate connections in the charts and both make really strong NN conjunctions and squares in synastry. If you do not have either of these in the natal but have them in synastry, it will play out the same way. I hope I can do this in my articles. Sorry for the late reply. Well, maybe, but dont most abusers have a history of childhood abuse themselves? My guess is that it would be an obsessive relationship where both would try to hurt each other? If one person's Sun is conjunct Saturn and the other persons Eros is opposite Pluto, the contact will be quite different than if the Sun was conjunct Jupiter and Eros opposite Venus. Eros Synastry Aspects: The asteroid, Eros, represents erotic love, sex, passion and intimacy. Thank You so much for this info. The conjunction is, in my opinion, the only aspect that clearly dictates a marriage between these specific people. I think theres a trine or sextile to other asteroids but nothing major. Also, I discovered that my daughter has Dejanira conjunct her 2H Virgo Moon(3 deg. I dont want to assume that having Nessus conj BML means Im going to be abusive in sexual relationships. I am having a hard time following your questions, Julia. "I want to welcome you to my website. Powerful, you say? If a mans Nessus conjuncts, your Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or North Node, he will abuse you, in my opinion. This pairing can form a deep emotional bond, especially through physical intimacy. Since Aries is ruled by Mars, there's a . with Dejanira conjunct his natal Saturn, Mars. I remember the first time I discovered how to read a synastry chart; I worked with mine and my boyfriends for about 6 hours. The asteroid Eros plays a role in sexual attraction as well. I would have to consider the scenarios more. One person is kind of riding the other one in this. If they are conjunct in synastry, a soul mate connection is indicated. Even with a trine this 8th house effect enhances both the good and the bad ? Planets and asteroids will be modified when they aspect each other, this the possibilities are endless. Hi Amiann, how do you think nessus square neptune would play out in synastry, lets say if its almost exact. However, this person would have to play it out before he overcame it. Eros Conjunct the Midheaven: This synastry aspect will be quite powerful for both parties since it will impact the way that the world views them. My mother has her Nessus conjunct my sun and she has it conjunct her own north node, and my Dejanira is conjunct her moon, and there has NEVER been any type of abuse. I always question the role of house overlays and given this topic the 8th house comes to mind. His sun/jupiter/neptune/venus are on my venus/saturn trouble spot in scorp. At the end of the day, that is all this god and goddess really ask for.". They play out to have a certain pattern to the relationship. I know this came off a bit more forward, but only because I want to make it clear that one persons feelings are not fact. Would the aspects to the venus offset the negativity that the Dejanira implies? 3. Saturn draws the couple together due to karma, but Juno and South Node aspects offer more of a choice. For that reason, I am not for everyone and know this but I seem to be appreciated by people who think like I do. . Thank you, Lo and Welcome I love you and hope you write to me to say hello or to ask questions. . I would need to see more, Jenn! 10. They have a very strong sense of "us against the world," and they will fight to protect the boundaries of their relationship at all costs. That might be how theyre playing out their Nessus-Dejanira, though Im not sure since they also have a lot of mutual Uranus and Pluto contacts to inner planets and both Ascendants. Eros in Synastry seems appropriate to discuss for this time of year. . This is another clear-cut past life astrology marriage aspect, although it isnt as heavy. Ive only been studying astrology casually for 5 years, so even though I know the basic interpretation of those planets in contact, Id still love to hear it from a pro love your blog! It brings you back to the time when you were a child and truly powerless. Lilith cops the craziest projections - that she could cause miscarriages or tried to wreck men's marriages via 'erotic nightmares' and so on. Eros isnt making any connections to either Dejanira or Nessus though. Welcome, Britt. If the man is the Dejanira, he would be the victim. Click here for instructions on how to enable JavaScript in your browser. Deja conj the DSC may make you look for wounded bird types. Yes, these asteroids have to be in a very close conjunction with other planets ( or a very close square) to be dangerous. There is no superficial way to get to know Lilith through the experience of the erotic. And posting my charf sounds like fun, I just might . Asteroids and aspects do not control people. What does this conjunction mean in a synastry? Does this mean anything? It is opinion, not truth. It sounds really bad I guess, but this person has given me so much positivity and encouragement and I feel has set me on a positive path. This is my opinion and other people may differ but I call things as I see them, Mandy dear. This will be HOT. Lilith on the ic is one of the more potent lilith synastry to have even in the composite. Juno aspecting the South Node simply means that the pair was married (in some way) in a past life, or had a longterm marriage-like relationship. Maybe, the good aspects just out weight this one. My sun and deja are on his nn. I do charts for the people who want them. I am new on this and finding all this information was revealing, so now I will stick to questions about my dejanira and nesuus. -Eros conjunct their personal planets ( Sun,Moon,Venus, Mars etc.). That mars/nessus of his is also square his moon/pluto. Well you may want to take advantage of their trust and innocence. Do these asteroids have to be conjunct planets or square each other to be dangerous? The relationship seems to end in a certain way, too. Relationships that provoke her and Eros, although excruciatingly potent at times, serve as a meeting place for both divine figures. I can relate to everything Ive read from you. DRACO CHARTS (DRACO-NATAL/ DRACO-SYNASTRY) Originally posted by kellyaroman What is a draco chart in astrology ? Thank you a bunch for being so sweet Free~ I do agree that Ami is quite insightful, however I would like to chime in and say that I do not make every aspect positive I make every aspect neutral because the stars and planets are not going to tell you something is bad or make something bad. His Dejanira is in 25 Scorpio, conjunct my Part of Fortune in 27 Scorpio, opposite my Moon in 29 Taurus and Mars and Jupiter, in 0 Gemini. what would the double wammy of sun and pluto look like? Lilith, both Black Moon and Asteroid 1181, brings up deep and primal sexual energy sometimes accompanied by feelings of anger, rejection and rage. Thank you, My Sun and Mercury sandwich this conjunction by four and three degrees. 2) I just started going out with a guy, we have good chemistry and just checked our natal charts and see we share amazing aspects except for my dejanira. I know this is not my website, so I cannot change how you write and it is not my business to dictate how you write. The charts tell all. What is your opinion on Lilith conjunct Ascendant Opposition AC / Moon and trigone mars and saturne. , Not a sag actually, but a virgo with tons of leo in her chart, lol. I will come back and answer when I have time to really look at the details. Deep soul love, incredibly painful at times. Uranus/Mars in synastry can be kinky. If you see Moon oppose or square Pluto, dont play with the person. The same with nessus conjunct ASC? I also found out that my Nessus is 1 degree conjunct my current boyfriends Sun(Cancer). I just got into astrology a month ago and find it fascinating. If you know, let me know! under what theme of the forum? Connections between the Vertex and the lunar nodes are also indicators of past life in synastry. IF the chart does not seem right, then I think the time of birth is off. I suppose you have choice on whether to act on it. I appreciate your thoughts on these aspects but I am concerned when any astrologer singles out specific aspects and makes sweeping judgements about charts and how the energies in that chart will be made manifest. I just want to let people know that things are not as clean cut and set in astrology as it is written sometimes because things that are presented as the only possible, likely truth will make people will fear astrology and the people around them if they look into isolated aspects from small asteroids and planets alike. It is disrespect to Astrology which I love and respect. Not sure which one id prefer. There is NO way this will work out well, in my opinion. I wasnt abused as a child in any way. Again, telling people to get out of or stay out of relationships with an aspect that you in particular think will cause them harm is not healing in any aspect of the word. Come and post the charts. You may be fated to marry. and should I post the picture of the chart (I usually get it from astro.com)? For your daughter, watch out she does not get sexually abused. YES, your Deja conj his NN will make you his victim, to put it really directly. I do keep finding myself attracted to people who seem to have a strong primal power under the surface, and I dont really feel connected to Pluto myself (I dont know if thats on purpose or simply because its otherwise weakly aspected in my chart). Can you relate to it or are just worried in general lol. The Fortuna would, likely, bring good fortune to the vertex person, likely in the arena of money. In fact, it is the opposite. What I wanted to know first was what past lives we had together. I have seen it in a few people, only. I have to always be honest. I hope I can do this when I tell you about my own life. In fact, it is the opposite. Did you know I had one? If it feels too, too good to be true, it often is. Theyre both devoted and kind people and Ive known her since we were teens. This ascendant descendant conjunction alone does a very interesting thing in the chart. xx, haha you are so cute, I like you and you write very simple and easy to understand. Considering the sexual aspect of it all, though, I'm betting the pay off was satisfying at least, haha. We need to look at the whole chart to see the whole story. To put it plainly, if you have a dominant Nessus, you will be an abuser. Chiron conj the Sun is not sexy. Lilith Synastry Sun and Lilith conjunct in the synastry chart When Sun person's Sun and Lilith person's Lilith combine, each person awakens the deep desire for individuality and creativity in each other. I still talk to him to this day and I honestly will never forget how magnetic this relationship was. Would an eighth house overlay make these destructive or strengthen ? Sorry if this came off mean, I just dont want people to get scared over having one aspect when astrological interpretations are not set in stone. The Saturn person may kind of ride the back of the Mars person. Thats not the truth. It is real to be neutral. The ex that abused me while I was pregnant had his Nessus conjunct my MC. This isn't always a bad thing, however. as well as to the signs and houses. I didn't eroticize his everyday actions. for example a 1.46.. or 2? ? Hi Amiann How we respond to this synastry contact has a lot to do with our own relationship to power and sexuality. That is why I dont mince words. In order to talk about an asteroid, one must isolate it. With asteroids, one must be an intrepid explorer because there is precious little PRACTICAL info out there. What about a mars 8th house overlay also trining pluto? This is a difficult aspect, but the couple often meets in this life to try and heal the wound. He was considered irresistible. I think her NN is right on his 7th house axis for one. We are to take the blueprint that is given and then do what we want with it. I came across your blog post and so went through my charts looking for couple friends and this one came up as having the conjunction. My Dejanira is square his venus (-0a) and conjunct his vertex (0s). It exposes our weaknesses and provides us a chance to deal with them constructively. However, Moon/Pluto in conjunction does not have to turn bad. Same natal chart of a man who is 41-42 years old. Who would bring who abuse? Is there a positive aspect to this connection? The chart never lies, my Friend. Eros & Psyche in. My dejanira is in opposition to his sun and without any other aspects. TEA & ROSEMARY LLC. Once awakened, no matter how untamed the experience becomes, we are given a rare opportunity to integrate, redeem and restore Eros and Lilith to a place of honor through shared, transcendental sexual activity.
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